May 29, 2013

N'awlins.

Mike and I celebrated our ninth wedding anniversary yesterday--CRAZY! Nine years! One of the great things about getting married over a holiday weekend is that he's always guaranteed at least a three day weekend. One of our New Year's resolutions was to try to stop complaining about how much we dislike Alabama and try to take advantage of what the south has to offer us. Sooo...we hopped in our car and drove about five ours south west to New Orleans!

Several family members met us there as well, which made the weekend extra fun! I was shocked at how much disrepair there still was after almost 8 years. Very sad. I don't remember watching the news much in 2005 so I read up a lot about Katrina while we were there and my heart was just breaking. I'm so glad so much of the city has been able to recover.

Sidenote: This is NOT a stroller or handicap friendly city. My sister-in-law's mother was in a wheelchair and could not use the side walks the majority of the time due to broken concrete or tree roots. We had the same issue with the stroller but luckily we had taken our BOB with us so it handled the obstacles a lot better than a regular stroller would have. Just keep this in mind while traveling with a stroller or wheelchair.

We stayed downtown and spent the majority of the time in the French Quarter and area. I have never been in a city so alive with music--I LOVED it. We did not get beignets from CafĂ© Du Monde (or anywhere else for that matter) and we didn't get to see Marie Laveau's grave--we walked all the way to the cemetery only for it to be closed.

It was HOT (and smelly!) but we had a good time. I used all of my carriers and Hazel did great in the jogging stroller.  We ate a TON of really good food and really enjoyed ourselves. I don't think we'd go back, except maybe to see the city decorated for Christmas. The pictures pretty much tell the story....


On the way to the Big Easy!



Watching the USMC Jazz band perform.


St. Louis Cathedral




Muffeletta Sandwich


Pirate's Alley

My niece, Gabrielle, Hazel and I


The Mighty Mississippi

We walked down one block of Bourbon Street to get to dinner. A stripper (hooker?) thought Hazel was cute.

Good morning, NOLA!


Even Hazel was feeling the music! (This tambourine came home with us. She LOVES it!)











World War II Museum

BBQ Shrimp and Grits

Chicken Jumbalaya



Lafayette Cemetery No. 1


Definitely the most interesting place I've NIP.


Me in front of one of Anne Rice's former houses.




Tootsies


I fell in love with this tradition of having a "Second Line" parade after a wedding.
What a wonderful way to start a new life together!

May 19, 2013

Our Choice to Vaccinate

I've been meaning to write this post for awhile and have been asked about them a few times recently. Baby is asleep so I decided I'd try to write it while I have a few spare minutes!
I consider myself pretty crunchy in that I cloth diaper, breastfeed, natural birth, believe in keeping boys intact, bedshare, make my own cleaners, try to eat little processed foods, etc. There are a few things that set me apart from being all out granola though--I refuse to give up my razor. And I vaccinate.

I believe in the science behind vaccines and Mike and I both agreed that we want Hazel fully immunized. However, the CDC schedule freaks us out a bit. We didn't like the idea of giving her several vaccines at once for fear of her having an adverse reaction and I still don't understand why the same dosage is given to a baby and a full grown man.  We declined Vitamin K and Hep B (and eye ointment) at birth because we felt they were unnecessary and I didn't want anything injected into my newborn. We got a LOT of crap from the on call pediatrician who made us feel like we were killing our child if we didn't vaccinate right then and there. At her 72 hour weight check the pediatrician offered to bring in the head of the infectious disease department to talk to us, again making us feel like we were jeopardizing her life, which was ridiculous. We were pissed that we were treated this way but we had done our research and felt confident in our decisions. Hazel still has yet to have her Hep B. We will likely have her immunized against this once she starts school.

As I said, we want Hazel to be fully immunized but have chosen to spread them out a bit. This gives her immune system a little more time to mature and we have elected to do no more than two vaccines at a time (this makes it easier to figure out any issues should she have any negative reactions) no more than one aluminum containing vaccine at once and no more than one live virus at once. This means more trips to the pediatrician's office in between her well baby check ups but that's not a huge deal. So far her pediatricians here have been okay with her alternative vaccine schedule, even if it confuses the hell out of them. Good thing I keep good records and know what I want her to have and when!

Dr. Sears' Vaccine Book was a really helpful resource while making this decision. He breaks each vaccine down and lists the pros and cons of each, the ingredients and explains the disease. He also offers several great alternative and selective vaccine schedules. Vaccines don't have to be all or nothing. I have many friends who choose not to vaccinate at all and while I disagree with them, I respect that it is their decision to make. I know that once I vaccinate her I can't "un-vaccinate" her and if Hazel does ever have an adverse reaction I will never forgive myself. BUT Mike and I both feel that the risk of a reaction is the lesser risk compared to all the scary diseases of the world. All you can do is research and decide what is best for your child and family.

May 16, 2013

9 Months Old


I'm 9 months old!
I weigh 18.2 pounds and am 27 inches long (growing perfectly right on the 50th percentile curve!)
I am pulling up and even standing on my own for several seconds at a time.
I'm crawling and getting into everything...--I love to splash in my doggies' water bowls.
I'm starting to cruise along the furniture and have discovered that I can crawl UNDER things. It's all fun and games until I get stuck or bang my head.
I love to pull things off shelves and watch them fall.
Diaper changes are not my friends. I have mastered the "alligator death roll."
I have ZERO teeth and that's just fine with mommy.
I'm making sure mommy stays a healthy eater because I love to beg and have some of whatever she's eating. I really like my fruits--grapes, mangoes and blueberries are my favorites.
I can sign "milk" and wave hi.
I will inevitable fall asleep in my car seat about five minutes before we arrive at mommy's destination.
I have started to make silly faces and laugh at myself.
I love to be outside and really seem to enjoy going for runs in my stroller.
I know what I want when I want it and if I don't get it I will let you know.
I love music and peek-a-boo.



Today Hazel's doctor informed me that should be sleeping through the night and encouraged me to let her cry it out and "self soothe." Even after I told her that she was so busy during the day (and therefore nursing less) that she makes up for it at night, she told me I didn't need to feed her throughout the night. That's a great way to A) deny my baby the calories and nutrition she needs and decrease my milk supply. Glad I know better and Hazel does too--as the medical professional was giving me parenting advice she started waving bye bye like, "Okay, you can go now..." Guess she didn't like that "advice" either!

May 13, 2013

My First Mother's Day

I used to dread Mother's Day. I hated the stupid commercials that started in April. I hated the displays of flowers and chocolates in stores. At every turn I was reminded that I wasn't a mom, that my body was a failure. But finally, finally....yesterday was different. Yesterday, my first Mother's Day, was a perfect day.

I woke up to kisses from my miracle baby and a message in a bottle--Mike wrote me a poem about motherhood and surviving infertility. It made me cry! I am so lucky.

Our original plan was to spend the entire weekend at the beach but the weather on Saturday was crappy so we just went for the day yesterday. Oh my gosh--so gorgeous! We went to Santa Rosa Beach, near Seaside, FL--where The Truman Show was filmed! The clearest, bluest water I've ever seen. So perfect. It was about 80 degrees, no wind and the water felt awesome!

Hazel wasn't crawling the last time we were at the beach so I thought for sure she'd be all over this time. She was so good! She was happy to stay in our little tent and play with her toys, only crawling away when one of us encouraged her to do so. It was a perfect day.





This stuff feels weird.

This stuff looks weird too.


Does it taste good?


I'm so lucky to have him.


I just love her.

 
 

She was having so much fun!
She loves giving slobbery kisses now!
 I can't even begin to describe how much I love breastfeeding. It is so empowering to know that my body is sustaining Hazel. I love the bonding and love that is shared between us and I love the way she gazes up at me when she nurses. For me, breastfeeding Hazel is the epitome of motherhood. For my first Mother's Day I wanted nothing more than a beautiful picture of me nursing my miracle baby. Mike took several throughout the day but this was my favorite one. When Hazel has kids of her own and I'm old and gray, I will look back on this picture and remember how special our breastfeeding time was, how in love we were.  It was a perfect day.
 



Apr 22, 2013

Team Red, White and Blue

You guys know that I've been running for the past few months, trying to get my post partum body back into shape. Hazel actually ran her first 5K with me last weekend. Mike, Hazel and I ran a race on post in honor and rememberance of fallen heroes and survivors. I shaved three minutes off my previous 5K time and Hazel slept most of the time.

First family 5K. Running for ADV 22 and ADV 11 KIA 25 Jan 09 Kirkuk, Iraq

Mike and I want to start training for a 10k but we don't know how well that will work out since I hear the weather down here is about to get really hot and sticky.

I wanted to tell you about an amazing organization we joined--Team Red_White_and_Blue.

Team RWB’s mission is to enrich the lives of America’s veterans by connecting them to their community through physical and social activity.


Mike and I are really excited about it. Check out this video to learn more and go to the website to learn more! Veterans who join will receive their shirt for free. You don't have to be hardcore to join (hello--I'm not exactly marathon material) and even if there isn't a chapter in your area you can still join. This is a great way to support our troops and especially our war veterans.

What runners and the community experienced in Boston a week ago is the exact same thing that hundreds of thousands of service members have experienced in Iraq and Afghanistan over the past decade. In the chaotic aftermath of the bombing, Team Red, White & Blue members from across the country began posting on Facebook a photo and short video of a Team RWB veteran who turned his RWB shirt into a tourniquet. This action reminded us of the positive things happening amid the evil. It has put the spirit of Team RWB on full display for millions of Americans to see.

Team RWB had 17 athletes who ran in the Boston Marathon last Monday including veterans, active duty and non-military. Thankfully, none of them were injured, but each is forever changed. Within a few hours of the attacks our organization was committed to responding to the evil and pain with hope, strength and optimism. We did this by organizing "Team RWB Response Runs" across the country in over 45 cities. This video captures Team Red, White & Blue communities in action. We encourage you to share this with others. Thanks for your support. IT'S OUR TURN!





Apr 18, 2013

We Have a Crawler

There will be no rest for me now.

Apr 17, 2013

8 Months Old

I am finding it more and more difficult to hope on the computer and blog as Hazel becomes mobile and has started getting into everything. I don't know how some of you keep up with your blogs! Anyway, my baby girl is 8 months old! Actually, she was 8 months old a week ago but I just got around to taking the pictures.


  • I can get on all fours but I'm not crawling yet--at least not forwards!
  • I love to kick, kick my legs every time I'm picked up. I get so excited!
  • I love to splash in the bath tub.
  • I'm starting to pull up on my own.
  • I've got the pincher grip down and love to feed myself.
  • I LOVE peek a boo. 
  • My kitty Figaro makes me giggle--I love him!
  • I love yogurt, sweet potatoes, mangos, grapes and drinking out of my sippy cup. (LOVE Baby-led weaning!)
  • I can push myself into a sitting position.
  • I love to be outside and am starting to enjoy my jogging stroller more.
  • I'm starting to babble.
  • I'm interacting with Mommy and Daddy more and more and starting to play games with them. I'm so silly!
  • I scared the bejeezus out of mommy a few nights by sleeping 4, 6 and 8 hour stretches! Mommy was still awake every 2-3 (at least) hours checking on me!
  • I'm very ticklish and my belly laugh is the cutest thing ever.
Guys, it's going so fast. I am having so much fun watching her grow and learn but I can't help but wish it would slow down a bit.